What do you think about “Love”? Or should I say what about the common experience people call “Love”? Is love combination of what looks good to the eye and makes the heart race? Doesn’t everyone experience the same euphoric feelings when they (fall) are in love? The first time you (you think) are in love how great was (is) your feelings? Oh!, I know that I may probably be reminding you about the first time you (fall) are in love. Your heart skipped whenever he/she was around or whenever you heard (hear) his/her voice. Anytime you perceive the aroma of his/her perfume that butterfly feelings makes your head to swell. Oh! What-sha-ma-I-say? Sometimes Sirnoel can be a little controversial. Please just follow me as I flow…
Friend if physical reactions
accurately define love; why are there so many divorces today? Sky-high divorce
rate and brake up in relationships strongly indicates there must be more to
love than natural short-lived emotional reactions. People have kept on failings
in and out of love. Why? Because they have never really told “themselves” the
truth. From my teen age I have always hated the word “Fall-in-love.” I
discovered that people who always fall in love never take time before they
fall-out-of love again.
I am very frustrated with the
abuse heaped on the word “Love”. It is manipulated by the media (movies, soft
sale magazines, Books on fictions) and use sloppily by nearly everyone else.
Well I am not a follower of Cupid (Roman god of love) but I want to try in my
own best way to set the record straight. (Someone would ask which record?)
Funny Sirnoel…lol
Most “Lovers” have the chemistry
thing working for them but they seldom remain together long enough to explore
more into each others life. It would interest you to note here that I didn’t
try to define love. I think I should live that for another day. Though I didn’t
define love here as you already know, however, let me tell you the things love
does and what love won’t do. Please remember that there’s nothing like TRUE
LOVE or FALSE LOVE. Love is Love. (Anyway this is my own opinion, you can argue
it; so don’t swallow it hook, line and sinker).
Before I round up this piece, you
have to know that: (1) Love does not and can’t hurt. It is lack of love that
hurts. (2) Love cannot be used to manipulate, if one person is manipulating
another, then that’s lack of love. (3) People do not stay in abusive
relationship because of love. They stay because they are scared, they believe
they don’t have options or they have low self-esteem. (4) The power of love is
always giving, expansive, joyful and creative. It is impossible to twist love
into a negative purpose. Romans 13:10 says “Love does no harm to a neighbor.”
Therefore, don’t blame love for
the problems you are having in your relationships (Marriage & Courtship).
The root of our (human) problems,
all of our problem is lack of love. You may hardily believe this, but it is
true. War is not about territory or resources or power or control, but war is
of fear, and fear is a product of lack of love. My good friend, build your
love, stray out of the line of fear and manipulation. Well...
Wait for me next week as we run a
LOVE RACE.
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