Life is a journy that no one takes alone, though when you die, you would not take anyone along with you. No one of us can actually make it in this life without the help of another person. So many people out there use to claim that they made it alone... how funny it always sound in my ears anytime I hear some thing like that. God that created the heavens and the earth could not even do anything when He want to take away the sins of the world without the help of a human. God decided to get to the world through a human because He knows how importance it was for man to help man.
What am actually saying, is in all you do make sure to show some one some love because by so doing someone else will also show you some love (because life is GIGO). Many people out there who do not help others or who do not want to help people always claim that they never recieved help from anyone. These people forgot that for them to have gotten what they have is because someone thought it wise to do business with them or because someone decided to employ him/her.
If God wanted human being to just come and strugle on their own He would not have made another human as a help meet to man. Never you close your eyes when you see some one whom you can help. never you also reject help when someone wants to help you. I have seen someone that does not want to have anything to do with others-I mean he don't collect anything from anybody because he does not want to share with anyone.
Listen, no one can actually maximise his/her life without sharing it with others. The joy of being alive in sharing life with others. When we allow people to come into our live and contribute their quota; life becomes sweet. Even those who eventually hurt us are also important to our personal growth and success. "Variety is the spice of life" they say, it is an absolute truth. Therefore we need both the good, the bad and the ugly people in our life for us to grow and get better.
I have learnt how to learn and benefit from any kind of relationship. I don't push people away nowadays, I walk away or I stay away from the person because tomorrow that same person might become important to me. Wise people are friendly with the, Vigilantes, Soldiers, Police, Area Boys, Religious leaders, Politicians and even urchins plus the mad person they meet on their way out. All these people I mentioned have a role to play in our lives.
Finally-My friend don't live like an oister. Make friend with the rich and the poor, the haves and the have nots, all have a purpose to serve in your life. We need each other to make it good in life. Every experience is worth having. E N J O Y
Thanks and God bless you.
