Sunday, February 13, 2011

HOW TO BUILD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE


INTRODUCTION: Our behavior is generally formed when we are still growing up. At these our age now we can decide how to behave or live. Because, it is easier to acquire right or wrong attitude at our formative years.
Some people are very much fortunate to have formed a positive attitude when they were kids while some are not that fortunate. However, if you have formed a negative attitude, whether by design or by default and somehow you are hooked to it. Don’t be afraid or disappointed because you can choose to change it now and take up a more positive attitude today. There is nobody who cannot change hence that person has made up his/her mind to improve and become more positive.
HOW DO YOU BUILD AND MAINTAIN A POSITIVE ATTITUDE?
1.      Become aware of the principles that builds positive attitude. You must know that in this life there are principles for everything. Nothing in this world just happen like that. It is when the right principle for a process is applied the right answer will be gotten.
2.      Desire to be positive. Desire fuels success. It when we desire that we can acquire. You can’t receive what you are not desiring especially positive things. Just the way you get hungry get hungry to have positive attitude. Anywhere you see what will give you the right attitudes go after it without minding those who would laugh at you.
3.      Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles. This is where many of us fail. Everybody wants to be successful but very few want to be disciplined enough to get to their place of success. Little wander we have very few successful people on this earth.
In your classes how many persons make As, Bs? But majority make Cs, Ds and even Fs.
Do you know how many people that sits for JAMB and WAEC every year? Thousands; tell me how many of them make their papers.
Discipline and dedication will give you an edge over others in everything you do in life. In your family and in your class or whatever field you find yourself.
As a life coach I have seen that those who have poor and negative attitude always blame everybody and everything for their failure in life. As a human being it is your responsibility to take care of your front line. No matter your family background or educational qualification. You are the one to change and build a more positive attitude.

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