Thursday, March 17, 2011

HOW TO BUILD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE (concluding part)


1.      BUILD A POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM. Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves. If we become more positive about how we feel about ourselves our performance will improve.
When one feels good and positive about himself/herself, the person’s attitude towards others will naturally change. Because there is a direct correlation between feeling and doing.
2.      AVOID NEGATIVE INFLUENCE. Negative influence can be a thing or a person. Those of your friends who do not learn from you and does not also help you to grow intellectually or spiritually avoid them. Those things you get involved in that stops you from being the best should be avoided forever. Including habits, games etc.
3.      TURN YOUR DUTIES INTO FUN. Everywhere you find yourself creates some fun around you. People will be more interested in associating with you if they find out that you are not a grumbling type. Because people don’t grumble while having fun.
When you move about with negative people they will kill your attitude and also kill your vision.
4.      EVERY MORNING START WITH SOMETHING POSITIVE. When you wake up in the morning talk to yourself. Tell yourself that you are the best. Read books or listen to music that will help you become a better you.
If you have motivational books or music, even if there are motivational quotes or text messages on your phone, listen and read them.
 Do it first thing I the morning and last thing at night, it will help you a lot. It will improve your attitude toward others and yourself.
CONCLUSION: If you want to build a positive attitude you must start now. Not tomorrow. You don’t even have to consult your friends or family members to start this journey.  Attitude change is marathon race not a hundred meter huddle or race.
Prepare your mind to be the best in all you do. And for you to achieve that always do what you have leant today.
If you start and have a little set back keep trying you will get better with every practice. Change is not one of the easiest thing but it one of the best thing.  
THANKS VERY MUCH FOR LISTENING. SEE YOU AT THE PLACE OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE.